Winning Your Relationship Game Podcast

Allison Velez

Our significant relationships have more impact on our happiness and well being than just about anything in our lives! You can transform your relationship, even if you're working alone!

  • 9 minutes 18 seconds
    A Word About Pornography
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    Are you concerned about porn use by you or your partner? Find out why porn can be destructive to your relationship.
    11 August 2019, 8:02 pm
  • 15 minutes 24 seconds
    The Definition of Infidelity
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    My husband and I discuss the elements of infidelity as presented by Esther Perel in her book, The State of Affairs.
    1 February 2019, 9:33 pm
  • 12 minutes 10 seconds
    Every Single Choice Matters!
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    This is my latest podcast episode with a challenge to make a better choice! Listen in to hear my tips.
    6 August 2018, 4:44 pm
  • 10 minutes 49 seconds
    The Requirement for Relationship Success
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    If you want to succeed at your relationship, you're going to need to be consistent and persistent at investing into it. Get some inspiration here.
    6 August 2018, 4:37 pm
  • 11 minutes 23 seconds
    Self Doubt and Insecurity
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    We are biologically designed to seek belonging, both to communities and to other people. The stronger and more secure that sense of belonging, the more confident we are taking other risks in life.
    6 August 2018, 4:23 pm
  • 8 minutes 16 seconds
    Handling Your Suffering
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    We all suffer from time to time. Suffering is any form of distress. In relationships, emotional distress is a signal there’s something to learn. With practice and discipline, these places of discomfort are where growth happens.
    6 August 2018, 4:21 pm
  • 11 minutes 53 seconds
    Expressions of Love
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    Marianne Williamson says that our behavior is either an expression of love or a cry for love. Sometimes we express love in ways that don't feel very loving! Listen in to hear my own example.
    6 August 2018, 4:19 pm
  • 14 minutes 23 seconds
    The Downside of Denial
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    Denial can be frustrating and wreck communication. Curb your denial related behaviors for a relationship boost.
    6 August 2018, 4:15 pm
  • 11 minutes 7 seconds
    Explicit Relationship Agreements-Discussion of The State of Affairs
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    Recently, my husband and I discussed the book, The State of Affairs, by Esther Perel. She’s a leading marriage and family therapist in the world today.

    Affairs and infidelity are a big problem in a lot of couples I work with. I wanted to discuss my thoughts about the book and get my husband’s perspective as well since he’s not in the field of psychology. I hope you enjoy this series of discussions.
    6 August 2018, 3:31 pm
  • 13 minutes 5 seconds
    Thoughts, Feelings, Behavior=Our World
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    Learn how thoughts, feelings and behaviors work together. You can use this information to help transform your world into one more beneficial to you.
    24 January 2016, 5:27 pm
  • 8 minutes 30 seconds
    Imagine Your Way
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    What is different about the best relationship you can imagine? Create a relationship you love.
    11 January 2016, 12:48 am
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