Not a day goes by that someone doesn’t ask me this question in one form or another.

Why? Because few things in life involve more gut-wrenching second-guessing than deciding when to quit a relationship.

With heightened emotions and conflicting intuitions, it’s no wonder this situation gives our hearts and minds disorienting whiplash . . . all while wasting our most precious resource: time.

Today’s Rewind episode could end up saving you months or even years of pain by providing you with the questions you should be asking when making this big decision.

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Heartbreak is never easy—especially around Valentine’s Day. In this episode, Matthew dives deep into the struggles of heartbreak, the emotional pain of moving on, and how to navigate feelings of loss, regret, and loneliness. And if you're struggling with heartbreak, don’t miss our free live event on February 25th, where he’ll guide you through the process of healing and moving forward. Sign up at LoveLifeTraining.com. Main Topics Covered:

• Why Valentine’s Day can be a painful reminder of heartbreak
• The different types of heartbreak: fresh, chronic, and long-term loneliness
• The power of self-compassion and reconnecting with yourself
• Why no contact feels so hard—and how to stay strong
• The danger of dating as a distraction from heartbreak
• How to stop obsessing over your ex and wishing things had ended differently
• Dealing with regret and the fear that you lost “the one”
• How to recognize and avoid emotionally avoidant partners
• The key to moving forward and finding love again

 

In this episode, Matthew and Audrey tackle some of the toughest listener questions about love, rejection, and moving on. From rebuilding after heartbreak to recognizing red flags, they also break down the emotional roadblocks that keep people stuck and show you how to move forward. You'll hear:

• How to ungive up on dating in 2025
• Why closure isn’t always about an explanation—sometimes, it’s just seeing the truth
• The surprising red flag that’s often overlooked when choosing a partner
• How to stop wasting time on someone who isn’t invested in you
• What it really means when a person pulls away after intimacy
• Whether it’s worth revisiting a past connection—or if it’s just a distraction
• The importance of living a full life outside of dating to naturally attract the right person.

If you've ever found yourself overanalyzing someone’s behavior, questioning your worth after rejection, or wondering if you should give love another chance, this episode is for you. And if you're struggling with heartbreak, don’t miss Matthew’s free live event on February 25th, where he’ll guide you through the process of healing and moving forward. Sign up at LoveLifeTraining.com.

There are 5 words no one wants to hear: “It’s not you, it’s me . . .” But the moment we hear that, we don’t believe it. We figure they just don’t want to tell us the real reason. We wonder: “Did they feel we had a lack of chemistry? Was it something I said? Were their friends pressuring them to break up with us?” Our mind starts to spiral and we analyze every single thing we might have done “wrong.” In today’s episode, I share 3 reasons why it truly isn’t about you (REALLY!) and how you can use that knowledge to move on from heartbreak faster.   ---   ►► Join My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal From Heartbreak at . . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

Are you one of those people who dreads Valentine's Day?

Whether they're single or in a relationship, people have all kinds of reasons for wanting to skip February 14th:

There’s too much pressure to be romantic.

It’s all about money and gifts.

Single people are made to feel like failures.

It would be easy for me to say all the reasons Valentine’s isn’t worth the trouble.

But I think we can all make this an event we actually enjoy instead of dread. First, you need to avoid some of the big mistakes people make when approaching the day (and their whole dating life).

Avoid these 5 traps, and you’ll be on your way to fulfilling love at any time of year . . .

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When we’re heartbroken, it can feel like the pain will go on forever . . . we’re afraid and overwhelmed, and too often we fall into habits that actually make it harder to heal. In this new epsiode, you’ll learn about 4 behaviors that can keep people stuck in heartbreak, and give you a “heartbreak roadmap” so you can finally move forward and feel like yourself again. (And be sure to stay until the end for a brand-new tool that can help you move on!) ►► Join My FREE Masterclass: How to Heal From Heartbreak at . . . → http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at →  http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com

It’s so easy in the early stages to confuse big gestures with real romance. In this clip, I’ll show you how being able to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential and save you SO much grief and time in relationships. You’ll also see how to communicate your needs if someone isn’t giving you real closeness and it feels like they are  rushing forward while not showing real consistency.

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In this episode, Matthew Hussey explores why we often delay moving forward, waiting for the "perfect" time to start fresh. What if that perfect time never comes? Drawing from a powerful conversation at a recent Love Life Club event, Matthew unpacks how we unintentionally put our lives on hold, whether in love, career, or personal growth. Matthew also talks about limiting beliefs and reshaping your mindset so you can stop waiting and start living—even in the messy, imperfect middle of life! Topics include:

• The illusion of a "fresh start" and why life never truly pauses
• A Love Life Club member's dilemma: Can you date while preparing for single parenthood?
• The reality of navigating life nel mezzo—in the middle of everything
• How our subconscious wiring shapes our goals and behaviors
• The trap of waiting for ideal conditions before taking action
• Why New Year's resolutions often fail (and what actually works)

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Leaving a narcissistic relationship is one of the most important things we can do for ourselves. Yet it can be so incredibly hard to leave. We might convince ourselves we can’t live without them, or think we’re being too hard on them, or keep trying to stay in touch . . . In today’s episode, I explain why this happens and provide you with a tool that can help you get peace and clarity to finally move on from a narcissist for good.   ---   ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

What’s the #1 most attractive thing someone can do on a first date?

Play footsie under the table? Wear a stylish, confidence-boosting outfit? Whisper, “Hey, you look amazing” when greeting them with a hug?

Nope.

While those things might not hurt your chances, what really makes someone want to see you again comes down to how they feel in your presence.

They need to feel intrigued. They need to feel attractive. They need to feel a sense of fun…

This week, I’m going to share 5 powerful lines you can use to spark great emotions and leave them dying to see you again.

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 In this episode, Matthew and Audrey dive into:

• Setting Up for Success in 2025: Practical strategies for making real, lasting changes in your life.
• Routines for a Better Love Life: Small but powerful habits to help you meet new people and feel more confident.
• Avoiding Burnout: Lessons from 2024 on why overcommitting can drain your happiness.
• The Power of Social Interactions: Why making an extra effort to engage with people can transform your opportunities.
• Navigating Toxic Friendships: A listener question about dealing with a partner’s problematic friend—when to ignore and when to speak up.
• The Truth About Social Media: How to take control of your digital habits for better mental health.
• Finding What Really Works for You: Discovering and sticking to your own personal "truths" that lead to a happier, more fulfilling life.

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