How did the Wives do with their sexy pornography homework?  Tune in to find out. 

But first, check out this episode’s Canna-cocktail, the Cherry Blossom Smash: a yummy combination or cherries and blood orange juice with just a dash of cannabis tincture.  Sip on this delicious cocktail listening to this episode's Hot Tale: the Wives host a Barbarella-themed house party and they get up to no good, with flogging, blindfolded kissing, eight-handed massages, and more!

Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework: who's ready for a week-long, porn-o-thon?  The Wives were so inspired by the hot, female empowered pornography, they start making plans to create their own.. 

Finally, the Wives give their tips on finding porn that feels female empowered and ethical. 

MORE ABOUT ETHICAL AND FEMINIST PORNOGRAPHY

The concept of "ethical pornography" is subjective and can vary depending on individual perspectives and values. Generally, it refers to the production and consumption of adult content that aligns with ethical principles and values, such as consent, fair labor practices, and respect for performers. Ethical pornography may prioritize factors like transparency, communication, and empowerment of the individuals involved in its creation.

Key elements often associated with ethical pornography include:

1.     Consent: Ensuring that all participants willingly and enthusiastically agree to be part of the production.
2.     Fair Labor Practices: Treating performers and other personnel involved in the production with respect, fair wages, and safe working conditions.
3.     Diversity and Inclusivity: Representing a diverse range of body types, genders, ethnicities, and sexual orientations to promote inclusivity and avoid reinforcing harmful stereotypes.
4.     Authenticity: Presenting realistic and consensual scenarios rather than perpetuating harmful or exploitative narratives.
5.     Transparency: Providing clear information about the production process, including the treatment of performers and the ethical standards followed.

Feminist pornography is a genre of adult content created with the aim of promoting gender equality, empowerment, and consent. It challenges traditional pornography that often objectifies and degrades women by portraying them as passive objects of male desire. Instead, feminist pornography seeks to depict sexuality in a more realistic and respectful manner, often emphasizing communication, mutual pleasure, and diversity.

Key features of feminist pornography may include:

1. Consent: Scenes depict enthusiastic and explicit consent between all participants, ensuring that no one is coerced or objectified.
2. Diversity: It embraces diverse body types, sexual orientations, gender identities, and ethnicities, representing a wider range of human experiences and desires.
3. Authenticity: Scenes may focus on real intimacy and connection rather than exaggerated performances. This can involve more realistic portrayals of pleasure and arousal.
4. Empowerment: Women are often depicted as active agents in their sexual encounters, exploring their desires and expressing their own pleasure.
5. Ethical Production: There is a commitment to fair labor practices, including fair wages and safe working conditions for performers, as well as respectful treatment both on and off-camera.

Feminist pornography aims to challenge societal norms and stereotypes surrounding sexuality and promote a more inclusive and respectful approach to adult content. It seeks to provide alternatives for individuals who may find traditional pornography problematic or alienating.

It's important to note that the definition of ethical and feminist pornography may vary among individuals, and what is considered ethical or feminist by one person may not be the same for another.

If you are interested in supporting ethical or feminist adult content, you may want to research and choose producers or platforms that align with your values and priorities.

Bellesa.co: traditional, graphic porn, produced by women 

Sssh.com: Female-led and Female-focused we're your source for ethically produced, explicit, sex-positive films.

Afterglow. Porn by women; for everybody.  Quiz and free video based on results. 

Frolic me Beautiful erotica

Lustery real couple amateur porn. 

Ersties fun, female produced porn with lots of tutorials

ForPlay Films erotica for women, by women

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Pornography, focusing on ethical porn and feminist porn.  

Pornography is sexual content designed to arouse, and let's face it, pornography is everywhere.  If you've written off pornography as not your thing, check out this episode for a fresh, feminist take on porn. 

But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why not try this Canna-cocktail, the the Lemon Blackberry Mule. 

Mix one up while listening to this episode’s hot tale: Ams gets the best birthday present from Mr. Ams, a year of monthly MFM threesomes!  Listen in for what happened in February. 

Next, Ams and Kat explore past experience with pornography: what they have liked and what's a little bit "ick". 

To learn more about Pornography, the Wives interview producer and director, Inka Winter, owner of ForPlay Films. 

Finally, the Wives set themselves sexy homework, including exploring new genres of porn and using porn for play dates and foreplay. 

MORE ABOUT ETHICAL AND FEMINIST PORNOGRAPHY

The concept of "ethical pornography" is subjective and can vary depending on individual perspectives and values. Generally, it refers to the production and consumption of adult content that aligns with ethical principles and values, such as consent, fair labor practices, and respect for performers. Ethical pornography may prioritize factors like transparency, communication, and empowerment of the individuals involved in its creation.

Key elements often associated with ethical pornography include:

1.     Consent: Ensuring that all participants willingly and enthusiastically agree to be part of the production.
2.     Fair Labor Practices: Treating performers and other personnel involved in the production with respect, fair wages, and safe working conditions.
3.     Diversity and Inclusivity: Representing a diverse range of body types, genders, ethnicities, and sexual orientations to promote inclusivity and avoid reinforcing harmful stereotypes.
4.     Authenticity: Presenting realistic and consensual scenarios rather than perpetuating harmful or exploitative narratives.
5.     Transparency: Providing clear information about the production process, including the treatment of performers and the ethical standards followed.

Feminist pornography is a genre of adult content created with the aim of promoting gender equality, empowerment, and consent. It challenges traditional pornography that often objectifies and degrades women by portraying them as passive objects of male desire. Instead, feminist pornography seeks to depict sexuality in a more realistic and respectful manner, often emphasizing communication, mutual pleasure, and diversity.

Key features of feminist pornography may include:

1. Consent: Scenes depict enthusiastic and explicit consent between all participants, ensuring that no one is coerced or objectified.
2. Diversity: It embraces diverse body types, sexual orientations, gender identities, and ethnicities, representing a wider range of human experiences and desires.
3. Authenticity: Scenes may focus on real intimacy and connection rather than exaggerated performances. This can involve more realistic portrayals of pleasure and arousal.
4. Empowerment: Women are often depicted as active agents in their sexual encounters, exploring their desires and expressing their own pleasure.
5. Ethical Production: There is a commitment to fair labor practices, including fair wages and safe working conditions for performers, as well as respectful treatment both on and off-camera.

Feminist pornography aims to challenge societal norms and stereotypes surrounding sexuality and promote a more inclusive and respectful approach to adult content. It seeks to provide alternatives for individuals who may find traditional pornography problematic or alienating.

It's important to note that the definition of ethical and feminist pornography may vary among individuals, and what is considered ethical or feminist by one person may not be the same for another.

If you are interested in supporting ethical or feminist adult content, you may want to research and choose producers or platforms that align with your values and priorities.

ABOUT INKA WINTER

Inka Winter is an erotic filmmaker and founder of ForPlay Films, an independent, all-woman porn production company. Spending her formative years living in an alternative artist commune in Austria gave Inka a critical eye for what constitutes sexy, consensual female pleasure and set the foundation for her creative endeavors in erotic filmmaking. Her background in costume design and styling informs her aesthetic and translates to the editorial feel of her films. Her films

 

titillate the senses through sexual chemistry, consent, autonomy, and the female gaze.

Because Inka believes that education and emotional wellbeing are a central part of a healthy sex life, she started a YouTube channel, Sexucation, which aims to provide adults with factual information, often with the use of comedy, on topics such as birth control, cunnilingus, polyamory, and how to communicate during sex. Inka is also a certified sex educator and counselor and provides desire and arousal coaching.

How did the Wives do with their Tantric Sex homework?  Tune in to find out. 

But first, check out this episode’s Canna-cocktail, the Orange Berry Tea with a new nano-tincture.  Sip on this delicious cocktail while Kat shares her Hot Tale: a professional massage gets a BDSM vibe with cupping and scraping. 

Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework, inspired by Barbara Carrellas' book, Urban Tantra. Kat shares her tantra ritual with Mr. Kat, while Ams explored solo tantra, including a no-hands, Breath and Energy Orgasm.  Finally, the Wives give their tips on exploring tantric practices. 

MORE ABOUT TANTRA

The original practice of Tantra encompasses a wide range of beliefs, practices, and rituals, and its principles can vary among different schools and traditions. However, some core principles are commonly associated with Tantra:

• Unity of the Divine: Tantra often emphasizes the oneness or unity of the ultimate reality, which may be referred to as Brahman, Shiva, Shakti, or other names depending on the specific tradition. The idea is that everything in the universe is an expression of this ultimate reality.

• Energy and Consciousness (Shiva and Shakti): Tantra often conceptualizes the divine as a dynamic interplay between masculine (Shiva) and feminine (Shakti) energies. These energies represent the dual aspects of the supreme consciousness, and the practice of Tantra often involves awakening and harmonizing these energies.

• Sacred Sexuality: Some Tantric traditions incorporate rituals and practices that involve sacred sexuality. The goal is not mere physical pleasure but rather the spiritual union of Shiva and Shakti energies within the practitioners, aiming for heightened awareness and divine connection.

• Ritual and Symbolism: Tantra frequently employs rituals, symbols, and ceremonies to connect with the divine. These can include mantra chanting, yantra (geometric diagrams), mudras (hand gestures), and various ceremonies designed to invoke spiritual energies.

• Embracing the Mundane: Unlike some ascetic traditions, Tantra embraces the material world and the experiences of daily life. It encourages practitioners to see the divine in everything, including ordinary activities, and to use the challenges of the material world as opportunities for spiritual growth.

• Teacher-Student Relationship: Traditional Tantric practices often involve a guru-disciple relationship. The guru is seen as a guide and spiritual mentor who leads the disciple on the path toward self-realization.

• Non-Dualism (Advaita): Many Tantric traditions advocate a non-dualistic perspective, emphasizing that the ultimate reality is beyond distinctions such as good or bad, pure or impure. Practitioners seek to overcome dualities and realize the underlying unity of all things.

Many Westerners have been applying Tantric principals to sex for over 100 years.  Some of these principals include adding ritual and mindfulness to sexual experiences, focusing on breath and energy, fostering a deep connection between partners and focusing on pleasure and ecstasy as opposed to orgasm. 

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Tantric Sex. 

Tantra is a complex and multifaceted spiritual and philosophical tradition that originated in ancient India. Tantric sex is the practice of using Tantric principles, such as mindfulness, breathwork and energy connection, to sexual experiences. 

But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Hot Buttered Cider. 

Mix one up while listening to this episode’s hot tale: Ams, Mr. Ams and their friends have a grown-up sleepover, complete with Seven Minutes in Heaven: mini-threesomes while one person watches and keeps time.   

Next, Ams and Kat explore Tantric principles and past experiences with mindful sex. 

To learn more about Tantric Sex, the Wives interview author and educator Barbara Carrellas. 

Finally, the Wives set themselves sexy homework, including solo tantra work, breath and energy orgasms and all-day sex sessions. 

MORE ABOUT TANTRA

The original practice of Tantra encompasses a wide range of beliefs, practices, and rituals, and its principles can vary among different schools and traditions. However, some core principles are commonly associated with Tantra:

• Unity of the Divine: Tantra often emphasizes the oneness or unity of the ultimate reality, which may be referred to as Brahman, Shiva, Shakti, or other names depending on the specific tradition. The idea is that everything in the universe is an expression of this ultimate reality.

• Energy and Consciousness (Shiva and Shakti): Tantra often conceptualizes the divine as a dynamic interplay between masculine (Shiva) and feminine (Shakti) energies. These energies represent the dual aspects of the supreme consciousness, and the practice of Tantra often involves awakening and harmonizing these energies.

• Sacred Sexuality: Some Tantric traditions incorporate rituals and practices that involve sacred sexuality. The goal is not mere physical pleasure but rather the spiritual union of Shiva and Shakti energies within the practitioners, aiming for heightened awareness and divine connection.

• Ritual and Symbolism: Tantra frequently employs rituals, symbols, and ceremonies to connect with the divine. These can include mantra chanting, yantra (geometric diagrams), mudras (hand gestures), and various ceremonies designed to invoke spiritual energies.

• Embracing the Mundane: Unlike some ascetic traditions, Tantra embraces the material world and the experiences of daily life. It encourages practitioners to see the divine in everything, including ordinary activities, and to use the challenges of the material world as opportunities for spiritual growth.

• Teacher-Student Relationship: Traditional Tantric practices often involve a guru-disciple relationship. The guru is seen as a guide and spiritual mentor who leads the disciple on the path toward self-realization.

• Non-Dualism (Advaita): Many Tantric traditions advocate a non-dualistic perspective, emphasizing that the ultimate reality is beyond distinctions such as good or bad, pure or impure. Practitioners seek to overcome dualities and realize the underlying unity of all things.

Many Westerners have been applying Tantric principals to sex for over 100 years.  Some of these principals include adding ritual and mindfulness to sexual experiences, focusing on breath and energy, fostering a deep connection between partners and focusing on pleasure and ecstacy as opposed to orgasm. 

ABOUT BARBARA

Barbara Carrellas is an author, artist, innovator, instigator and thought leader in the fields of sex, gender and spirit.

She is also a sex/life coach, sex educator, workshop facilitator, university lecturer, motivational speaker and theater artist. She is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving: Tantric Inspirations for Passion and Pleasure.

https://barbaracarrellas.com/barbara-carrellas/

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

Nowadays - Cannabis infused drinks https://trynowadays.com/

Amorus Cards: https://amorus.net/

Game of Lifestyle: https://www.gameoflifestyle.com/

How did the Wives do with their Boudoir photography sexy homework?  Tune in to find out. 

But first, check out this episode's Canna-cocktail, the Winter Berry Smash.  Thanks to a listener tip, Kat found a tincture that uses nano-technology for quicker absorbtion and a faster experience. Then, Kat brings it home with her Hot Tale: a threesome with the Wives and Mr. Kat.  Is he the luckiest man on the planet?  You decide. 

Then, the Wives took a field trip to Nicole Marie's Boudoir Photography Studio in Easton, Maryland.  Building on their experience taking boudior shots at Desire Resort in Mexico, the Wives came prepared with a Pinterest board, lots of wardrobe changes, and a bunch of beauty tips before they even get to the studio. 

They got special hair and makeup treatment and had a four-hour photo session.  Things got suprisingly naked!  As a bonus, the Wives got to visit their friend Adrienne from Midlife Craving Podcast. 

Finally, the Wives share Just the Tips on ways to have a fantastic boudoir photography experience. 

Mentioned in this Episode:

• https://allebachphotography.com/
•  https://www.botanyfarms.com/products/nano-delta-9-microdose-gummies

Do you need to be "hot" to be successful in the lifestyle? In this episode, the Wives explore aesthetics and attraction in ENM relationships, including an interview with Coach April from Naughty Gym.  

This bonus episode was inspired by a number of listener questions that the Wives have received, where listeners have shared their concerns and insecurities about looks in the lifestyle. So, do you need to be hot?  The answer is not simple.  On the one hand, lifestyle dating is a lot like vanilla dating, and looks are a big part of attraction. So, yes, looks play into success in the lifestyle and improving your looks can improve your chance of success.  But on the other hand, people of all shapes, sizes and ages participate in the lifestyle, so no matter where you fall on that spectrum, there is a good chance that you can meet people and make a connection. Also, attraction involves more than looks: confidence, intelligence, and romantic mental and emotional connections are an important part of attraction for many people, including sapiosexuals, polysexuals, and demisexuals. 

To get more advice on the issue of aesthetics, fitness and wellness in the lifestyle, the Wives talk with their good friend: Coach April from Naughty Gym. 

Referenced in this Episode:

• Be Better and Being Bad
• Don't You Want Me Baby
• Desire -  Riviera Maya

About April:

Coach April is a co-creator, with her husband Scott, of Naughty Gym, an online fitness and coaching platform tailored to the sex-positive community. April, a highly accomplished fitness and nutrition coach, has excelled in various fitness disciplines, such as competitive running, figure competitions, CrossFit, and Powerlifting. With a wealth of experience, she has guided thousands of athletes with diverse goals and fitness backgrounds, earning recognition as an expert in empowering women to feel confident in their bodies and motivating them to achieve their fitness aspirations.

 

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Boudoir Photography. 

Boudoir photography is a style of intimate photography that captures individuals in a tasteful and empowering way, often in lingerie or semi-clothed, celebrating their unique beauty and sensuality.

Boudoir photography can be a powerful tool for promoting self-love, body positivity, and empowerment. It challenges beauty standards and encourages women to embrace their uniqueness. 

But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Pumpkin Spice (or, if you are looking for a little extra spice, add Bourbon). 

Mix one up while listening to this episode's hot tale: Ams never thought she would play on a show bed, but at a recent house party, she decides to hop on with a playful partner and a sexy voyeur. Never say never!

Next, the Wives describe their past experiences with boudoir photography, including professional pictures taken at Desire, plus some DIY photo shoots at home.

To get an expert's opinion, the Wives talk with photographer Nicole Marie, owner of Nicole Marie Boudoir. 

Finally, the Wives decide to book in for a boudoir photo session as their sexy homework.

Nicole Marie is a boudoir and portrait photographer located in Easton, Maryland. She is a lifelong hobbyist photographer, professional photographer for 15 years and boudoir specialist for 9 years. Her passion is providing a luxury experience and empowering imagery for women from all walks of life.

WEBSITE | FACEBOOK| INSTAGRAM

More About Boudoir Photography

What is a typical boudoir session like?

A boudoir session involves grooming, wardrobe selection and usually hair and make up.  A positive mindset is important. It's about feeling comfortable and confident in your own skin.

Who Should Consider Boudoir Photography?

Boudoir photography is for anyone seeking to boost their self-esteem, celebrate their sensuality, or mark a significant life event. It's inclusive and welcomes individuals of all backgrounds and body types.

How Does a Session Usually Go?

A typical boudoir session includes a consultation with the photographer, hair and make up, followed by the photoshoot. The photographer creates a comfortable environment, guiding the subject through poses that highlight their best features.

Who Should Have Boudoir Photos Done? 

Boudoir photography is for any women seeking to boost their self-esteem, celebrate their sensuality, or mark a significant life event. It's inclusive and welcomes women of all backgrounds and body types.

How Is It Beneficial for Women's Empowerment?

Boudoir photography empowers women by promoting self-confidence, challenging societal beauty norms, and fostering self-esteem. It allows women to see themselves in a new, positive light, which can have a profound impact on their self-esteem and well-being.

Resource Notes:

https://www.imaginated.com/blog/what-is-boudoir-photography/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boudoir_photography

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YmE8Uqx8gCE#:~:text=Learn%20how%20to%20take%20your%20own%20amazing,self%20portraits%20from%20me%20on%20Patreon%20at: for taking boudoir self-portraits

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ua-hOH-u_bA&t=0s composition for at home boudoir

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FzpQnm7ddPM diy boudoir

How easy is it to line up a threesome as a unicorn?  How about going to a sex club as a solo woman? How did Ams and Kat do on their sexy homework for Unicorn Threesomes?  Tune in to find out. 

A Unicorn is a single woman in the lifestyle.  She may enjoy meeting and playing with other couples (i.e. - a Unicorn Threesome) or she may engage in all sorts of social and sexual activities with other people in the lifestyle.  Don't fence her in!

Even though Kat and Ams are not single women, they are both curious to explore the dynamic of a Unicorn Threesome and wanted to experience what it is like to be the special guest star to a couple.  In Unicorn Threesomes Part One (https://2hotwives.com/unicorn-threesomes-aka-come-and-knock-on-our-door/), they set themselves sexy homework: Kat decides to go to a sex club without Mr. Kat to see what that would be like, and Ams is going to ask some of her lifestyle couple friends if they would like to have a threesome.  In this episode, they report back on their sexy homework.

But first, mix up this episode's Canna-Cocktail, the Autumn Bliss: mix honey simple syrup, cranberry juice, lime and ginger beer, then add your favorite cannabis tincture.  Make sure it is alcohol based and not oil based so that it mixes into the drink better.  And, if you prefer adding a spirit, add Gin instead. 

While sipping on your canna-cocktail, listen to Kat share her hot tale of a sexy encounter on the Bliss cruise.  Kat doesn't usually play on the first date, and never in a public setting.  But, it turns out that a sexy Irish accent is all that she needs to break all of the rules. If you are curious about what the playrooms are like on the Bliss cruise, this hot tale is for you. 

Next, Ams and Kat recount their sexy homework on Unicorn Threesomes.  Can Ams line up a threesome with friends?  Does Kat make it to the sex club? Listen in for the download. 

Mentioned in this episode: 

ForPlay Films: https://forplayfilms.com/ (Video: Menage a Tois, directed by Inka Winter)

In this episode, Ams and Kat explore Unicorn Threesomes.  Unicorns, you say?  But unicorns are single women in the lifestyle and the 2HotWives are…wives!  Well, even though Ams and Kat are not unicorns, they can still be “guest stars” in a threesome.

But first, if you are looking for a little buzz without the drawbacks of alcohol, why don’t try this Canna-cocktail, the Apple Pom Spritz!  All you need is some apple cider, pomegranate syrup, and a little cannabis tincture!

Mix one up while listening to Ams share her sexy experience landing a hot, bi bro. And wait, there are pictures involved?!? 

Next, the Wives explore what it means to have a Unicorn Threesome. Unicorn threesomes are just any old threesome, it’s a chance to be welcomed as the cherished “third” in a couple’s fantasy.  While not every woman can be a unicorn, they can be the special guest in a threesome!    

Why is it interesting to explore?  Well, apart from being a fantasy for many women, it’s an opportunity for partnered women to explore their sexuality without their primary partners and to be treated as a special guest in a couple’s most intimate space.  But unicorn threesomes also pose some challenges.  If you are a partnered woman, you may have trouble communicating your wants and boundaries alone.  You may even have safety concerns. 

To learn more, the Wives talk with YouTuber, Toronto Unicorn about the dos and don’ts of exploring the lifestyle as a single woman.  

Finally, the Wives decide on their sexy homework: Kat plans to go to a sex club with other ladies, while Ams looks for opportunities to invite herself into a couple’s bedroom.

ABOUT TORONTO UNICORN: 

TorontoUnicorn pulls back the curtain of secrecy on the swinger lifestyle, normally underground, for those curious to find their way to this sex positive lifestyle for themselves. Her mission is to “take the scary out of swinging and sex clubs” and invite sex positive people to observe the swinging world through her lifestyle vlogs and experiences.

Learn more at https://torontounicorn.com/

 

 

How did the Wives come up with "Use Your Words" and do they follow their own advice? 

Do the Wives still play on the second date? 

Does Kat still use her Bedazzler before each theme party?

What other stories and advice from Season 1 is still true and what has changed?

In this episode, Ams and Kat reflect on Season 1: the good, the bad and the silly. 

The Wives developed the idea of the podcast while in COVID lockdown, thinking if they can't play, why not talk about it in front of a microphone!

They discuss how their play style has changed over time and discuss the definition of a demisexual and demisexuality. 

They also share behind the scenes details on the recording and production process of the podcast.

Now is a great time to re-listen to Season 1 while you wait for Season 4 to launch.

Links to episodes from Season 1:

2HotWives Use Their Words

2HotWives Hit the Dating Scene

2HotWives Get to Play

All About Erotica! (aka: The Wives Turbo Charge Their Sex Drive and Level Up Their Fantasies Through Sexy Stories)

Impact Play (aka: This will only hurt a little bit)

Triggers (aka: When Rough Sex Triggers Bad Feels)

Sexy Dress Up

Role Play the 2HotWives Way

Did the 2HotWives break up?  Did they get divorced?  Maybe they set sail on the Bliss cruise and never returned???

The Wives are back to bring you an update on what's been happening in their lives since they last got in front of the microphone and to let you know that Season 4 will start on October 4th. 

The Wives are excited to share new hot tales and sexy advice on swinging, polyamory and kink.