Ignoring a narcissist is critical, and ignoring a narcissist is crucial when a narcissist tries to punish you. Narcissists love to get your reaction. As soon as they do, you are handing power away. And … when a narcissist hooks you in, everything you used to think is tipped upside down and turned on its head. We hand power away and can be significantly abused. Until we know better we think that combatting a narcissist is the answer, but it isn’t. IGNORING them is … and please learn the five ways to DO this in our POWER in this week’s radio show.

There is SUCH a deep soul familiarity to relationships with narcissists.   Are narcissists Soul Mates who we were meant to get it right with, but just couldn’t, or are they Twin Flames; deeply impactful souls called forth to surface and purge our darker pieces that they reflect, so that we can evolve?    In this blog article I share with you what I deeply believe to be the truth about this … regarding what VERSION narcissists are and WHY they are Soul Contracted to come into our lives. Join the conversation on the blog:  https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-soulmate-twin-flame-or-cell-mate

This radio show is one that many of you have been asking for – some conclusive steps regarding how it break free from a narcissist and recover from narcissistic abuse. I understand how hard it can be when we don’t know how to recover, or even what it is that could help us. There is of course tons of information we can read on the net, and we may be given advice from lots of people, including family and friends. I felt the same for years, and that is why I am passionate about sharing my breakthrough truly create our best and happiest life – even after feeling broken and devastated and having lost as much as we do when abused by a narcissist. And … that’s what these 5 steps are about … No Contact all the way through to conscious expansion, as well how to take ourselves firmly off the “narcissistic supply menu.” I so hope that this radio show helps breaks it down for you from the start of your journey to who you wish to be as your True Self.   Join the discussion with us on the blog.

I get asked by people ALL the time …“Can you please explain to me Melanie HOW to self-partner?” And that is such a great question! As are these questions: Is self-partnering something that can become automatic? Is it essential for abuse recovery and even MORE than that? I believe it is … absolutely! I will even go as far as to say I believe self-partnering holds the key to not only our Highest Potential and the Game of Life … It also unlocks the literal power of All of Creation itself. I hope with all of my heart and Being this article will harness within you how to become and experience the pure miracle of Life and yourself. Please come over to my blog to join in this conversation at: https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-10-most-impactful-ways-to-start-self-partnering-right-now

In Part One of this series, we looked at how to detach, and not a grant a narcissist narcissistic supply, and why this was so important. In this article – Part 2 I illustrate the 3 different ways we can try to deal with a narcissist – and the results of each And we also take a deep dive into the growing up of our traumatised parts that the narcissist could previous hook us with, and what that then looks like. I also answer specific questions from people in the Community about this very important topic! Please come over to the blog at join in on this week’s discussion.

There are many people in the Community who aren’t No Contact with narcissists. Maybe they are family members or you have to work with one … Or … maybe you are co-parenting with a narcissist. Or perhaps you are just not ready to let go yet. Whatever the circumstance, if you are still connected to a narcissist, please know it is possible to manage this and even have your rights upheld. Throughout this two-part series you will understand how and why.

Can we break free of the ongoing painful thoughts that can be so tortuous? Ones that … Bring us to our knees. Strip our Life-force. And leave us feeling so empty, broken and alone that we wonder how we can live, love and trust again. The answer is “YES!” Totally. Let me explain to you, with a deep dive into “how to” in Part 2.  Read along and join the conversation on the blog here. 

It is so frustrating and exhausting to have our heads go over and over and over what happened to us after narcissistic abuse. Why do we keep thinking about “what happened” and all the “what ifs” when we know we can’t change what happened? Maybe, despite you putting in a ton of effort to heal yourself, the “story” still keeps taking you down – not allowing you to move on. Stripping your Life-force. In this radio series we take a deep dive into WHY this is happening, and why is is detracting from our ability to heal. And you will learn how to stop this, reverse this and get free – once and for all – from those torturous thoughts into your True Life and freedom. Join the conversation on the blog: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-to-evict-the-narcissist-from-your-head-and-move-on-with-your-life 

This week’s episode is about two very important Quantum topics which I believe are pivotal for 2017. The realizing that time has sped up – and how to align oneself so as NOT to be “out of time” … meaning not living in the now and therefore not in the flow of Lifeforce and Wellbeing. I also discuss how the Feminine Collective Wounds are now rising up with great force to be released, and what this really means for females and males, as well as the healing of unity and humanity. This show may answer some mysteries for you that you have deeply felt and pondered.   Much Love xo  

This week in Part Two, we take a deep dive into practical concerns when breaking up with a narcissist, which are not just heartbreaking and gut-wrenching – they turn our lives upside down. Things such as smearing, being replaced, trying to explain to others that you have been abused by someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, trying to have others understand that you are suffering from Traumatic Stress Disorder … as well as many other excruciatingly painful and stressful situations. How do we come back from this? How do we combat the terrible things that the narcissist is capable of when we break up with one? Find out in this week’s Part 2. Please see the transcript of this radio show, and join in on the conversation on the blog.

Why is it that when we break up with a narcissist we usually feel WORSE instead of get relief? And … What does it take to not just merely (and barely) survive from breaking up with a narcissist, but to actually Thrive as a result?  Find out in my two part series. Join the conversation with myself and other Thrivers on the blog.